Help me not be so inhibited when it comes to making out/kissing?

Sweet it's okay to kiss, but it always lead to something else. And the problem there are you ready to go to the next level. why do you have to pretend the way you are just be yourself, without the drinking because when you drink you are not enjoy the person without being yourself. In other words you are being something that you are not. you taking on another character when you drink, let the person see you for who you are. If you are shy then explain that you the person who you are with.